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Post by Heather on Dec 24, 2014 22:58:22 GMT -5
**hugs** Thanks to both of you guys, toetapping and momo, I wish the best for you and your families- and love, peace and joy in your lives.
To all of the members here at Heather's House, happy holidays! Sending you lots of love and joy! ***and don't forget hugs too***!!!! oxox
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Post by Heather on Dec 26, 2014 16:02:51 GMT -5
Just spending a good quiet day at home.
Hope everyone has a good day today. oxox Maybe watch some more Star Trek Next Generation in awhile.
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Post by ~apple~ on Dec 27, 2014 12:23:22 GMT -5
Hello and happy holidays to all.  Its been a very busy week. I am looking forward to getting back to "normal". It has been nice spending time with family though. |
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Post by Heather on Dec 27, 2014 15:00:11 GMT -5
Enjoy your family time ~apple~. *hugs* Happy holidays.
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Post by The Enigma Shew on Dec 27, 2014 15:31:01 GMT -5
well I knew this was going to happen, I am slowly losing my paid services. netflix went down last night my phone will be off by the 30th Cable the 2nd. Good thing I am nly here til the 7th but not having my phone is rough. I hate that I even said that. The roughest thing right now is leaving Cheyanne with my Buddy Bob instead of bringing her with me. I feel I am betraying her love. Sorry to dump this on you guys.
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Post by Heather on Dec 27, 2014 15:42:28 GMT -5
***hugs*** You're not dumping this on us. We are all friends here.. and we share your pain dear Shew. I am so sorry this is all happening in your life. And I know how much you love your dear Cheyenne. She is your love and her feelings about the separation are a concern, of course they are... I don't know what else to say. I wish there were a way to say that it doesn't hurt or way to get over it- but I'm not over losing my son yet. ...and I just don't want to lay out lies of positives to come when I don't know that there are...
I wish I could just take your pain away and stuff it in with my own Shew. I am used to this pain now...
Sending you love and caring. If I could wrap you up in a warm hug, I would. Love you.
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Post by momo on Dec 28, 2014 11:20:49 GMT -5
Sorry your going through so much loss. I don't know the reasons behind your loss The Enigma Shew but I sure would not wish such a tough time on anyone. Sending you warm hugs from across the pond. Here is hoping the new year will start and be kinder to you. |
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Post by Heather on Dec 28, 2014 12:39:17 GMT -5
Hi momo. It's always good to see you. ***hugs***
So, anything going on for you today?
I am needing to get ready for one final holiday party. It starts early this year at 3pm. So, yeah, going to need to go soon and shower and dress for this.
Have a good day to everyone! If you need a hug... here ya go ****HUGS****
I will be back online much later... as I don't know when we will actually get back home tonight.
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Post by Heather on Dec 28, 2014 22:31:19 GMT -5
Finally back home, but exhausted. Being around a lot of people wears me down fast...
But I am home. Anyone miss me? Anybody? ... -=turns on Star Trek Next Gen.=- hmmm
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Post by Heather on Dec 29, 2014 1:04:16 GMT -5
I am ready for bed.. Goodnight everyone. I am sending you all sweet dreams. ox
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Post by The Enigma Shew on Dec 29, 2014 1:05:31 GMT -5
link tiebreaker for holiday avatar contest
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Post by ~apple~ on Dec 29, 2014 12:15:03 GMT -5
Hello!
Shew, so sorry for your troubles. :( (((HUGS)))
Well it is Monday and I have had so much time off work I am looking forward to going back.
Enjoy your day!
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Post by Heather on Dec 29, 2014 14:52:53 GMT -5
lol ~apple~. I've never had so much time off I ever wanted to go back in to work...
Well, then again, I never worked a job I truly loved either... so there's that. Have a great day at work!
I am just still trying to get my place back in order after the holidays-I dislike this part- because I encounter some of the things I have packed away that were my son's things. His stocking that we made together...things he made over the years... stuff like that...
I can do this.. I made it through last year, I can do it again.
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Post by Heather on Dec 31, 2014 5:29:26 GMT -5
sorry not posting much. i'm really sick. haven't had a bronchitis episode like this one in a few years, but this reminds me of how bad I used to get. it is wearing me out. can stay awake for an hour or two and then need to sleep.
cough- phlegm, headache, body ache, fever and stuffy face, sore throat and laryngitis ... grrrr...
hope everyone else is doing better.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 1, 2015 3:18:32 GMT -5
happy new years
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Post by Heather on Jan 1, 2015 14:42:12 GMT -5
Wishing everyone a happy new year.
I apologize for not being around much lately. I am still very ill.
Please drop on by whenever you want and let me know how things are going with you!
Take care and be safe. oxox
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Post by The Enigma Shew on Jan 1, 2015 23:55:43 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Jan 2, 2015 0:48:08 GMT -5
got a new laptop now i am back
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Post by Deleted on Jan 2, 2015 1:17:20 GMT -5
Hi everyone,
Happy new year to everyone... im sorry i havent been here lately...i havent been feeling very good the past few days and the new year started with an experience in anther forum that made me careful to post again. Nothing to do with you people here... but some things that people do sometimes do have an effect. I need a little time, but ill get back into things again if im still welcome..
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Post by Heather on Jan 2, 2015 1:56:05 GMT -5
You're always welcome here @teddybear8. You've been kind and minding your manners here- no need to be afraid of us...
But I understand too- because I am kind of shying back from forums other than my own for the time being.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 2, 2015 2:29:17 GMT -5
Thanks Heather, that's good to know :) Yea I know what you mean, I have limited the number of forums I go to strongly as well in the past years and now only have three that i post on and for the time being that's enough :) And btw, no i'm not afraid...i think careful is a better word. But that has nothing to do with this placew. So far over here things have been very friendly and good and I enjoy being here. I just may not have the chance to visit daily and sometimes i may even be gone for a couple of weeks but never longer. It's simply cos I have other things to do as well.
I hope things are slowly improving for you, ive been reading you've been having a bit of a rough time lately. I still need to get back to a few things we talked about before and I will soon :)
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Post by Deleted on Jan 2, 2015 2:31:46 GMT -5
got a new laptop now i am back
Good you got a new one. Same thing happened to me. I got a new laptop right before christmas thanks to a little christmas miracle !! :)
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Post by Heather on Jan 2, 2015 2:55:20 GMT -5
Just whenevver you have a chance @teddybea8, there is no rush around here. it's slow and that is fine.
probably better this way anyhow.
take care- and yeah, I am having a hard time- today feels like one of my worst with some crazy mood swings and just depression that won't go away.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 2, 2015 3:10:23 GMT -5
Awww Heather, hope you will get some relief from the mood swings and depression soon. I used to have mood swings all the time in the past so I know what that feels like. It can be a horrible thing to go through. Sending good thoughts :)
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Post by Heather on Jan 2, 2015 3:14:37 GMT -5
thank you. it is hard- because its not how you want to be- and sometimes it makes you just wish you never say anything again. ...its like needing to express the pain but it all coming out wrong and directed in the wrong places.
confusing and honestly makes me feel worse than if i had only just kept everything bottled up. you know?
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Post by Deleted on Jan 2, 2015 3:20:15 GMT -5
Yes I know what you mean Heather, I went through that a lot in the past... ive had many times that my pain came out directed at the wrong places... ive learnt to control it... I think the best thing is to try and talk to those of whom you know they won't judge you or whatever if you are depressed. I can promise you i will never judge you for it, just woill try to listen and see if I can come up with something to help to get you back on a more positive track :)
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Post by Heather on Jan 2, 2015 3:27:57 GMT -5
thank you. i think for today- since its pretty late.. i will see if i can figure it out on my own. i need to try to sleep. its 330am.
but thank you. maybe one day i will feel like talking... i'm sorry that i don't right now.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 2, 2015 3:35:26 GMT -5
Don't feel sorry Heather. There's nothing wrong in trying to figure out things on your own first. Just don't let yourself sink down too far. I'm always available to talk, either here or in pm :) I hope you will manage to get a good night of sleep in :)
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Post by Heather on Jan 2, 2015 11:00:39 GMT -5
thank you for understanding Teddy. Things will improve. ...I am working on things.Perhaps more sleep would do me good- as my bronchitis is still causing fever and stuffed face and chest.
Saying hello to everyone.
hope you are all doing well.
Enjoy your day in all you do.
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Post by The Enigma Shew on Jan 2, 2015 14:05:31 GMT -5
 could this day be worse, I stayed up with a sick friend, not complaining about that, glad to do it. then just as I am headed to bed I smell... well lets just say the plumbing isnt working and there is "water" in the basement. I have ruined things but not to worry the landlord was going to send someone right away. that was 6 hours ago..... No one yet! upstairs neighbors called him again and he asked if there was a way into the basement from the outside!?!?! he knows how the house is laid out they have to go through my place to get there so I have to stay up waiting for them. plus I have been holding my nature for 6 hours! I need to go man, I need sleep as well! Get the fu@% on it and get someone here to fix this as the smell is horrible, and you are holding 4 people hostage by not allowing them to go to the restroom! |
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could this day be worse, I stayed up with a sick friend, not complaining about that, glad to do it. then just as I am headed to bed I smell... well lets just say the plumbing isnt working and there is "water" in the basement. I have ruined things but not to worry the landlord was going to send someone right away. that was 6 hours ago..... No one yet! upstairs neighbors called him again and he asked if there was a way into the basement from the outside!?!?! he knows how the house is laid out they have to go through my place to get there so I have to stay up waiting for them. plus I have been holding my nature for 6 hours! I need to go man, I need sleep as well! Get the fu@% on it and get someone here to fix this as the smell is horrible, and you are holding 4 people hostage by not allowing them to go to the restroom!