Heather's House Locking it's Doors

[Heather]

Thank you all for joining Heather's House. Unfortunately, I feel as if it is time for me to say goodbye.

I hope that you all found some kind of love and happiness from being around my place. It was why I created it. But it ended up making me feel more alone than ever before.

Some of you might be able to keep in touch with me, if you wanted to...maybe. I kind of just think I am too ill to be on forums.

Take care of yourselves. Have a good and happy life.

Forever,
Heather

Final Day for Heather's House will be February 13, 2015- fitting as it will be a Friday.
If you want or need to save your own materials from here, please do so before then. Thank you.

[momo]

My dear Heather This makes me very sad to hear you feel this way. I would like to thank you for the work and time you spent with all at Health Warriors. You will be sadly missed by me and all our members. I wish you would reconsider my dear and come back to our forum and just be a part of the group. Now sounds like the time to have some support around you. Please think about it. At HW we do understand how depression can make you feel and it is awful to think of you suffering alone ((HUGS))

I don't think cancelling your doctors appointment was a good idea I think you should really try and talk with your Doctor. Please try and re book and see him/ she asap I am so worried about you and i know others are too.

This is the worst part of the PC when friends need help the most. They can just switch off at any time leaving those who care about them worrying how they are. Heather please try and bring yourself to re register at HW let us see if we can talk about what is hurting you so much. Sometimes talking with others is very good.

I do understand how hard it is to keep on top of a forum when you least feel like It I completely understand that. I think you have done great here with your forum it shows by the amount of members you have and they keep coming back that's fantastic.

maybe you just need to find some one to help out and who can add some input along side of your own so you don't feel so alone . I went through that but thanks to you and sassy I am managing to get through that dark patch. I am sorry to have lost you. come back as a member think about it please. loves and hugs my dear xxxx

[~apple~]

Hello Heather, I understand. I hope you feel better soon. Perhaps you might reconsider, nothing is written in stone. :)

[toetapping]

Heather very sad to hear this and like every one above perhaps when you are feeling better you may like to re-register with some of your favourite groups.

It is sad when you lose a friend. Take care and lots of hugs.

[Heather]

Thank you all for your support.

This decision is a hard one- because I had a vision of making new friends, having lots of talks, helping each other... and just playing around..

But, ...and this is me and this is part of my depression- I do this..when I need people most- I will hide from them. All of them. Even my best friends. ...I have been known to not answer my phone when I know who it is and I know they want to help me.. I do not understand why I do this. I do it all the time. I don't want to be cheered up anymore...

I want to be understood. ...and I want to not be a burden on anyone anymore.

[toetapping]

Understand Heather as my Dad suffered from depression so know where you are coming from.

I am sure you will make the right decision but always remember you are never are a burden.

[cumberdoodle]

I understand how you feel Heather. I am also glad you decided not to close x